In Avot 2:8 Hillel lists five excesses in human appetite that lead to adverse consequences. The list opens with the following words:
מַרְבֶּה
בָשָׂר מַרְבֶּה רִמָּה
The more the flesh, the more the
worms.
The natural implication here is that gluttonous
gourmandising is a bad thing. Eat too much and you become obese. In doing so,
you are simply providing more nutrition for the worms who will consume your
corpulent vastness when you die.
At one level this teaching seems obvious and needs no
explanation. Neither of the two compendiums of largely Chasidic commentaries,
the popular Hebrew collection in Mima’ayanei Netzach, and R’ Tal Moshe
Zwecker’s English-language Ma’asei Avos, offers even a single word on it;
nor do the Rambam, the Sefat Emet, R’
Chaim Volozhiner (Ruach Chaim) or R’ Yisroel Miller (The Wisdom of
Avos). Those commentators who do discuss it usually content themselves with
homilies about the dangers of obesity and self-indulgence or with speculation
as to whether the dead feel pain when their earthly remains are consumed by
worms.
Is there any more to this teaching? Apparently so, in the
view of R’ Shlomo Toperoff (Lev Avot). After stating that we eat too
much food and that dieting has been prescribed by many doctors, Rabbi Toperoff surprisingly
adds:
“Some connect ‘more flesh’ with
immodesty in dress”.
This comment is all the more surprising when one considers
that Rabbi Toperoff was writing back in the 1980s, when fat-shaming was normal
practice and women who were overweight were more likely to be embarrassed and therefore
avoid wearing clothes that would expose or draw attention to their figure.
I have yet to discover who the “some” are, even with the assistance of the internet, and I wonder whether this explanation was just Rabbi Toperoff’s way of taking a dig at women who wear scanty clothing—an issue which is not raised explicitly anywhere else in Avot. It may be that this mishnah has been cited to that end in writings on the subject of tzni’ut, modesty in one’s manner, speech and attire. I do not however recall any citation of it in Bracha Poliakoff and R’ Anthony Manning’s Reclaiming Dignity, the largest and most compendious text on the subject in recent times.
Can Hillel’s words be taken to include immodest exposure of
the flesh—or, more strictly, of the skin that covers it? Not according to R’
Asher Weiss (Rav Asher Weiss on Avos) and the many others who learn this
mishnah as warning against the pursuit of worldly pleasures: exposure in this
context is often if not mainly for the purpose of giving pleasure to others
and, in doing so, in order to attract their attention. The same cannot be said
for over-eating, the pursuit of wealth or the amassing of a large household of
wives and servants of each gender—the other excesses Hillel lists in this
mishnah.
Thoughts, anyone?
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