Let’s start the new calendar year on a positive note. At Avot 2:13 Rabban Yochanan ben Zakkai tells his top talmidim to take to the streets, as it were, and see for themselves which approach to life is the most preferable. This is how they respond:
רַבִּי
אֱלִיעֶֽזֶר אוֹמֵר: עַֽיִן טוֹבָה. רַבִּי יְהוֹשֻֽׁעַ אוֹמֵר: חָבֵר טוֹב.
רַבִּי יוֹסֵי אוֹמֵר: שָׁכֵן טוֹב. רַבִּי שִׁמְעוֹן אוֹמֵר: הָרוֹאֶה אֶת
הַנּוֹלָד. רַבִּי אֶלְעָזָר אוֹמֵר: לֵב טוֹב. אָמַר לָהֶם: רוֹאֶה אֲנִי אֶת
דִּבְרֵי אֶלְעָזָר בֶּן עֲרָךְ מִדִּבְרֵיכֶם, שֶׁבִּכְלַל דְּבָרָיו דִּבְרֵיכֶם
Rabbi Eliezer says: A good eye. Rabbi
Yehoshua says: A good friend. Rabbi Yose says: A good neighbour. Rabbi Shimon
says: To see what is born [out of one’s actions]. Rabbi Elazar says: A good
heart. [Rabban Yochanan ben Zakkai] said to them: I prefer the words of Elazar ben
Arach to yours, for his words include all of yours.
Rabbi Eliezer’s choice of a “good eye” is generally
understood to be a shorthand term for magnanimity towards others, being able to
share their success or happiness, and not begrudging what they have. His answer,
like those of his colleagues, is not incorrect, but it is passed over in favour
of that of Rabbi Elazar, which embraces it but is of wider application.
At Avot 2:14 Rabban Yochanan ben Zakkai gives a very
different instruction, relating to the path in life that his talmidim should
make an effort to avoid. This is how they answer:
רַבִּי
אֱלִיעֶֽזֶר אוֹמֵר: עַֽיִן רָעָה. רַבִּי יְהוֹשֻֽׁעַ אוֹמֵר: חָבֵר רָע. רַבִּי
יוֹסֵי אוֹמֵר: שָׁכֵן רָע. רַבִּי שִׁמְעוֹן אוֹמֵר: הַלֹּוֶה וְאֵינוֹ
מְשַׁלֵּם, אֶחָד הַלֹּוֶה מִן הָאָדָם כְּלֹוֶה מִן הַמָּקוֹם, שֶׁנֶּאֱמַר:
לֹוֶה רָשָׁע וְלֹא יְשַׁלֵּם, וְצַדִּיק חוֹנֵן וְנוֹתֵן. רַבִּי אֶלְעָזָר
אוֹמֵר: לֵב רָע. אָמַר לָהֶם: רוֹאֶה אֲנִי אֶת דִּבְרֵי אֶלְעָזָר בֶּן עֲרָךְ
מִדִּבְרֵיכֶם, שֶׁבִּכְלַל דְּבָרָיו דִּבְרֵיכֶם
Rabbi Eliezer says: An evil eye. Rabbi
Yehoshua says: An evil friend. Rabbi Yose says: An evil neighbour. Rabbi Shimon
says: To borrow and not to repay… Rabbi Elazar says: An evil heart. [Rabban Yochanan
ben Zakkai] said to them: I prefer the word of Elazar ben Arach to yours, for
his words include all of yours.
Rabbi Eliezer’s response complements his earlier answer by
framing the same advice in negative terms: if the right path is one of
magnanimity, the path to avoid is the route leading in the opposite direction,
towards envy, jealousy, negativity, resentment and dissatisfaction with one’s
lot. Once again, his answer is not wrong but is too specific. His path to avoid
is narrow; that of Rabbi Elazar is wider.
Gila Ross (Living Beautifully) goes beyond the
obvious meanings mentioned above. She writes:
“Rabbi Eliezer said an evil eye:
someone who sees the negative whether in things or in other people. It’s fascinating
that he says “eye” in the singular. He’s teaching us that a person becomes negative
by shutting one eye, the eye that sees Godliness within another person.
Everybody has both good and bad within him, so by shutting that eye and only
seeing the human, flawed side, a person develops an “evil eye”. When we shut
our eye and don’t look at the good within the other person, we are left with
the negative. Then, a person can even give negative motives to what other
people do”.
This metaphor fits neatly with other mishnayot in Avot, notably
Yehoshua ben Perachya’s injunction at Avot 1:6 to judge other favourably and Rabbi
Yehoshua ben Chananyah’s condemnation of “an evil eye, an evil inclination and
the hatred of others” (Avot 2:16) echoed in Rabbi Elazar HaKappar’s caution (Avot
4:28) regarding the self-destructive effect of jealousy, lust and the desire
for kavod, honour.
But Avot does not say that we should look at others only with
the “good eye”. We are obliged to see what
is truly there, since truth is one of the three values on which the continued
existence of humanity depends (Avot 1:18). More than that, we are obliged to
recognise and accept the truth, not deny it (Avot 5:9), and to set others onto
the path of truth (Avot 6:6).
Today is the first day in the secular calendar for 2025. My sincere
wish for this year is that we should all be blessed with the ability to
recognise the truth when we see it—and to be able to accommodate ourselves to
the truth rather than bend it to suit ourselves.
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