All you need is love

Made famous by The Beatles’ song, the slogan “All you need is love” became an anthem of the Swinging Sixties. But for students of Pirkei Avot there is much more behind these words.

At Avot 3:15 R’ Elazar HaModa’i teaches:

הַמְחַלֵּל אֶת הַקֳּדָשִׁים, וְהַמְבַזֶּה אֶת הַמּוֹעֲדוֹת, וְהַמַּלְבִּין פְּנֵי חֲבֵרוֹ בָּרַבִּים, וְהַמֵּפֵר בְּרִיתוֹ שֶׁל אַבְרָהָם אָבִֽינוּ, וְהַמְגַלֶּה פָנִים בַּתּוֹרָה שֶׁלֹּא כַהֲלָכָה, אַף עַל פִּי שֶׁיֵּשׁ בְּיָדוֹ תּוֹרָה וּמַעֲשִׂים טוֹבִים, אֵין לוֹ חֵֽלֶק לָעוֹלָם הַבָּא

[Translation] Anyone who (i) profanes the holy things, (ii) degrades the Festivals, (iii) humiliates his friend in public, (iv) abrogates the covenant of our father Abraham (i.e., circumcision), or (v) who interprets the Torah otherwise than in accordance with halachah---even though that person may possess Torah knowledge and good deeds, that person has no share in the World to Come.

There are many good reasons for separately justifying or explaining each of these five things, as commentators over the ages have tended to do. But is a detailed explanation of each of them required? Maharal Shik cuts to the chase and favours a general approach. It is accepted that, if you fall foul of any of these things you are crossing a significant boundary. In crossing these boundaries you are demonstrating the wrong attitude. On this basis a person can forfeit his share in the World to Come—even if he ticks the boxes, as it were, by going through the motions of performing all the (other) mitzvot in the Torah—if he has no love of the mitzvot and is unable to summon up a positive attitude towards them. This shows the importance of cultivating the right attitude to how we serve God.

The explanation of the Maharam Shik is apparently at odds with the message of R’ Chaim Volozhiner in his Nefesh HaChaim. There R’ Chaim emphasises the importance of actually performing a mitzvah even with no positive intention or thoughts at all, rather than having all the best intentions and attitudes but not performing them as required. The question before us is this: can these approaches be reconciled? Suggestions, anyone?

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When love is not enough, try fear instead

When Abraham and Sarah travelled to Gerar, he told the local king Abimelech that Sarah was his sister. Why did Abraham do so? Because he revealed that, if it was revealed that they were husband and wife, Abimelech would kill him in order to marry Sarah himself. When Abimelech discovered the truth, he indignantly asked Abraham why he had said such a thing. Abraham replied (Bereshit 20:11): כִּי אָמַרְתִּי רַק אֵין-יִרְאַת אֱלֹהִים, בַּמָּקוֹם הַזֶּה (“Because … there is no fear of God in this place”).

In his Hanhagot Adam Rabbi Tzvi Elimelech of Dinov, author of the Bnei Issaschar, asks why Abraham answers that there is no fear of God in that place.  Why did he not answer: “Because there is no love of God in this place?”

The question is a good one. Of all the Jewish patriarchs, Abraham is the one most closely associated not with fear but with chesed (“kindness”), a quality associated with love. Indeed, Abraham’s fear of God is an as-yet unknown quality. It is only after the test of the akeidat Yitzchak (the Binding of Isaac) that a divine utterance establishes this trait: כִּי עַתָּה יָדַעְתִּי, כִּי-יְרֵא אֱלֹהִים אַתָּה (“Now I know that you are a God-fearing man”, Bereshit 22:12). Would not Abraham be just as entitled to tell a lie to save his life on the basis that Abimelech was the king of a people who did not love God?

The truth of the matter is that fear of God, and of the deterrent effect of His punishment, is a more powerful inhibitor of bad behaviour than is love. The Torah itself recognises that we can convince ourselves that doing even objectively harmful and forbidden things to other people is right because we love them and can persuade ourselves that we are only doing what God wants us to do.  Thus in Vayikra 20:17 the word chesed (literally “kindness” but here meaning the exact opposite) is used where a man is unequivocally forbidden to commit incest with his sister. Abimelech’s domain might well have been a place where there was love of God but no sense of deterrence to accompany it. Only fear of God’s judgement will suffice.

Both fear and love receive their due in Pirkei Avot and this is hardly surprising. Both are basic human responses to relationships at many different levels. There is however one almost incidental reference to fear that I’d like to highlight here. At Avot 2:11, Rabban Yochanan ben Zakkai praises one of his talmidim, Rabbi Shimon ben Netanel as being yarei chet (“fearful of sin”). This is a rather strange sort of praise. Surely we expect every rabbi worth his salt to be afraid of sin; it’s effectively an entry-level virtue for anyone who aspires to be a seriously practising Jew.

But maybe there is more to this praise. Of course we are supposed to be afraid of sinning against God, against offending Him and then being punished. But how many of us can honestly say that we are so fine-tuned to our immediate circumstances and our environment that we are afraid of other people sinning too? When he stayed in Gerar, Abraham manifested his fear of not sinning himself but of other people’s sinning—and it may be that, when Rabban Yochanan ben Zakkai commended his pupil for his fear of sin, it was this extra level of sensitivity that he had in mind.

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