"Where do you come from, where do you go?"

“Where do you come from, where do you go?” How often nowadays does one hear this refrain being sung by youngsters as they dance happily to the thumping beat of “Cotton Eye Joe”, a song that has worked its way into current simchah playlists.

The same issues are tackled in rather more serious fashion by Akavya ben Mahalalel in Avot 3:1:

הִסְתַּכֵּל בִּשְׁלֹשָׁה דְבָרִים, וְאֵין אַתָּה בָא לִידֵי עֲבֵרָה. דַּע מֵאַֽיִן בָּֽאתָ, וּלְאָן אַתָּה הוֹלֵךְ, וְלִפְנֵי מִי אַתָּה עָתִיד לִתֵּן דִּין וְחֶשְׁבּוֹן. מֵאַֽיִן בָּֽאתָ: מִטִּפָּה סְרוּחָה. וּלְאָן אַתָּה הוֹלֵךְ: לִמְקוֹם עָפָר רִמָּה וְתוֹלֵעָה. וְלִפְנֵי מִי אַתָּה עָתִיד .לִתֵּן דִּין וְחֶשְׁבּוֹן: לִפְנֵי מֶֽלֶךְ מַלְכֵי הַמְּלָכִים הַקָּדוֹשׁ בָּרוּךְ הוּא

[Translation] Reflect upon three things and you will not come to the grip of sin. Know where you come from, where you are going, and before whom you shall give a full account of yourself. Where you come from—from a putrid drop; where you are going—to a place of dust, maggots and worms; and before whom you shall give a full account of yourself—before the supreme King of Kings, the Holy One, blessed be He.

Mishnayot like this are ideal material for serious commentary as we approach Rosh Hashanah, which is not just New Year’s Day but יום הדין (Yom HaDin, The Day of Judgement).

The core idea of the mishnah is clear enough. We start off as nothing greater than a drop of seminal fluid and our bodies end up under a couple of metres of earth—but our soul, our quintessential being—must still settle its account with our Maker, when our credits and debits are totted up and we are duly rewarded or punished, or both.

Our lives are bookended by conception, at one end, and death at the other, and the mishnah ultimately spells this out when it repeats its three questions. But why does it not supply its answers when it first asks them?

The Maharam Shik suggests that, in posing the questions, Akavya ben Mahalalel invites us to take a deeper perspective. Though our lives are bookended by conception and death, we are not conceived in a vacuum; nor do we live within one. We come from our parents and our families, and ultimately from our forefathers Abraham, Isaac and Jacob. When we die, we leave behind us our children, grandchildren and the future generations that lie beyond them. So, when we consider how to state our case before the Heavenly Court, we should be thinking not merely of our own performance in life but also how we measure against those whose ideals and aspirations are our inheritance and how greatly we have served as role models for transmitting our faith and our values to the generations yet to come.

It goes without saying that the best time to consider these things is while we are still alive and can do something about them.