Wednesday 15 March 2023

Body, soul and a torn-up prayer

In Gemara Berachot (5b) we learn a principle from Abba Binyamin that had obvious practical relevance in times when places of prayer were located outside areas of Jewish residence and there were neither street lights nor police patrols:

When two people enter [a synagogue] to pray, and one of them finishes his prayer first and does not wait for the other but leaves, his prayer is torn up in his face.

Since I am usually one of the last to finish my communal prayers, this teaching means a lot to me. I can imagine a person struggling to keep his mind on his prayer while resisting the constant urge to speed up and make sure he has someone else to walk home with, mindful of the possible dangers of walking home alone.

The Kerem Chemed of Rabbi Yehudah Rabinovitz brings an entirely different explanation of this Gemara, which he heard from Rabbi Yitzchak Yaakov Weiss ztz”l.

Abba Binyamin’s teaching is by way of allegory. The two “people” who go off to pray together are really a person’s body and soul (effectively the mind). Ideally, body and mind should be united in the act of prayer. However, sometimes one’s mind goes home first, as it were, leaving the body to carry on praying without thought or proper attention. Prayer such as this is of no great value to the person praying and may as well be torn up. There is a popular rhyming jingle that reflects this explanation: tefillah belo kavanah keguf beli neshamah (“prayer without meaning is like a body without a soul”).

So how does one avoid this danger? Once again we cite Rabbi Shimon ben Netanel’s teaching at Avot 2:18: “don’t make your prayer fixed [i.e. routine or without feeling], but rather [think about] mercy and supplication”.

Incidentally, situations in which the mind leaves one’s prayer while the body is still engaged in it crop up surprisingly often. One is at weddings, when the maariv prayer has been called for after dinner, but the band strikes up with a thumpingly loud dance number right in the middle of one’s silent meditations. Another is when an impromptu minyan gets together to pray during the half-time interval of a particularly exciting football match. One is often faced with a choice between not praying at all, waiting to pray at a later and more propitious time (if there is one), or praying with a quorum but recognizing that one faces an uphill struggle to do much more than articulate the words.

 

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